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writes: My best friend has this boyfriend whom I've warned her from the beginning is bad news. He verbally abuses her and is beyond jealous. She cant even hang out with me when my boyfriend is there. I randomly leave papers about abuse and help in her car and in her room until finally she took my advice and broke up with him. He went completely psycho and had to go to the phychiatric center for a week. I warned her that he was going to come out and say he's all better because he's on medication. And I knew she would fall into his trap again. She insisted she wouldn't but after a week of seeing him again they went back out. He returned to his old ways and I haven't seen or heard from her in a month. Help! I want my friend back.
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reader, QOTU +, writes (19 November 2005):
 Maybe she's only going out with him because she feels like nobody else would care about her? Or maybe she sees something beyond the anger?
Either way, I agree with your side of the story, and I think you should sit her down and have a good long talk with her - she IS MOST DEFINITELY making a mistake...
(by the way, if she IS feeling like he's the only person who would ever care for her, you should make her feel loved and wanted, and - maybe - go MAN-HUNTING!!! :-D)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2005): well if hes taking over her then you should talk to her parents about it but if hes hitting her then talk to the police all your doing is trying to look out for someone you love its the best thing you can do
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2005): And I would like to be in Tahiti. Look. There is such a thing as women who want to be dominated and abused. They are as sick as the men who prey on them. Your friend may be one of them. If you can physically find her, get her to a psychiatrist. She needs professional help before he kills her.
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