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writes:I asked for advice before, the question was:''I made him give me advice about dating a boy, without knowing I referred to him. Now that he knows, I'm not sure what to do next.''Well, he's my first boyfriend, and I'm not his first.He knows that hes my first so he's taking things slow with me, but I dont know what to do, (e.g) Where do I sit on the bus when he's there?What flirty things do I do?When I see him how do i greet him?When I say goodbye how do I do it?and more..Thanks x
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reader, xxhellowkittyxx  +, writes (30 November 2009):
i just got my first bf to at 3:25pm 11/30/09. He called me and i think every girl should ask "what do u like or love about me" he answerd my personality so my advice be u if he loves u for uhop that helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): If he is your first,then you are doing the right thing by taking it slow.Its ok if you are not positive on what you should do,just be surprised and let things happen for themselves.Thier is no correct manuel on what to do in a relationship and thats what is so amazing about it is it happens all on its own and things do happen for a reason.Do what boyfriends and girlfriends do just hang around eachother and get to know one another better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): In dating, there are no rules, you make the, play your own game
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): do what comes naturally, when you're having a joke with him and you just wanna fling your arms around him, touch him playfully on the arm, come up from behind him and put your arms round him, lean close to him in his personal space(but not all the time) he makes you feel happy?look at him alot and smile, just be natural around him and these things should encourage him-but i dont mean overdo it cause it's well known that too much affection, particularly early in a relationship doesn't appeal to the guy-or girl. you need to show him that you wanna be close at the same time but also you dont wanna appear to needy, act confident throw your shoulders back and carry on with your daily routine but make that little extra time for him. it's natural to want to spend every waking second with the one you love so just relax around him and make the most of the time you spend with him, on the bus approach him and his mates and sit with him and be happy and sociable(hard sometimes i know!) if you relax and just enjoy his company, if you kiss him it will come more naturally, greet him and see him off with an affectionate peck on the lips (if you feel comfortable). Be eloquent and go with your instincts and DONT WORRY XXX :)
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reader, MARISSA +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Well,i like questions like these and your question is great.So heres my advice let me remind you im only 13 i tell this to every one but trust me ..
1.Sweetie you should sit by him on the bus talk to him make other girls jelous that hes yours and no one can have him..
2.when you see him play with him,let him play with you to be a little rough and laugh too,hold his hand if he doesnt hold yours
3.when you see him darlin say HEY BABE and give him a hug if your standing there hold his hand and wait untill hes done talking to his friends ..
4.when you say goodbye hug him or give him a kiss on the cheek if you havent already gave him one on the lips but after say bye never ever ever say I LOVE YOU or DO NOT give him a SPEACH on how oh your the best thing thats ever happened to me so let him make the first move on saying i love you...
good luck with him
MARISSA
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reader, purplecloud03  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 well im not sure how long u guys have been going out but if he is on the bus with u, and theres a seat next to him...sit with him..if he is with his guys just look at him n if he keeps looking at u then go over but if he avoids your eye contact then just sit with ur friends..flirty things, just do what u did with him before u started going out, hold hands, a kiss on the cheek goodbye or just a hug goodbye, hug him if u want when u meet him or just say hi and start talking...dont get too worried about what to do....and if u are just wait for him to make a move when saying goodbye or if he looks like he is going to hug u when u say meet up hug him back.
if he goes in for a kiss and u arent comfortable then just turn ur head for a hug.
hope this helps
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