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My fiancee said it was either he goes or my smoking goes! But I have snuck smokes when he was away. Help me please!

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Question - (19 September 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2006)
A female , *onfussed jane writes:

omg i dont no what to do my fiance told me 2 pick between him or fags and i picked him of course cos i love him so much problems is i love fags and he made me promise i wouldnt smock so i did and he away on holiday with his ex and kidz and the day with my m8s i had a fag well couple draws after promisin and 2 weeks not smokin help plzzzzzz i dont want lose him i love him so much i am so stupid maybe he deserves better than me maybe get bc wa ex plz help

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2006):

David Lewis agony auntWell your friends are being very selfish and childish. If you love him dearly, then think about him every time you feel like a smoke. I am sure you would regret losing him over a 3 minute craving.

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A female reader, confussed jane +, writes (20 September 2006):

confussed jane is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i have and all my mates smock and are like dont stop for him and that and i brocken promise already

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2006):

If you love him and don't want to lose him then don't smoke. As hard as that is keep remembering what is at stake if you do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2006):

Quitting smoking isn't just about avoiding fags, but also avoiding situations where you know they'll be around and you might end up with one in your mouth. You should tell your friends about your promise so they'll know better than to light up in front of you in your vulnerable state. Similarly, dodge any bars or restaurants where people will be smoking.

All that said - if that's really and truly the ONLY time you slipped up, I think you can keep it to yourself as long as you keep up this streak from now on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2006):

Didn't I answer this already?

Again from Sep 17th:

Smoking - you just got to go cold turkey for awhile. My dad forced himself to stop one day after smoking for about 30 years. Try this link - or just do a search on Google:

http://www.mnwelldir.org/docs/misc/smoke.htm

And holy crap I just realized your grammar and spelling is totally out of whacked! 8|

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