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*eowmeagan
writes:I'm at a very confusing stage right now. My ex and I broke up in October and in the weeks following continued to hook up; but that's all. We didn't really talk and we never hung out unless I was over at his place and we ended up hooking up.Now everything is really different. He talks to me everyday now and almost always initiates the conversations. When he asks me to hang out whether we're with people we know or not, he's always very attentive to me and does flirty things like rubbing/scratching my back when we sit down, and one time he scooped a bunch of chocolate frosting onto his finger and fed me that way. He asks me to sleep over every once and a while and the other day asked me to come over for a nap; not to nap and have sex, but just to nap with him. When I spend the night he always reaches for my hand and holds me really tight.I know he could be doing all this just because he wants attention but could it possibly all mean he still has feelings for me too?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): it sounds like you're not broken up at all. unless what this means is that you two can have intimate moments together but still feel free to drop each other the minute anyone else enters the picture.
maybe you two are now friends with benefits. that's a pretty difficult relationship to have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): Men are very confusing creatures haha! I'm just joking. It sounds like he might want something more, but he might be unsure about it. Why don't you just ask him? If you both care for each other, it might be worth giving it another try. If not, then at least you know where you stand, and it'll give you a better idea on how to act around him.
Good luck!
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