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writes:Overview. We dated, and it was a bad time, so we broke up, quickly and painlessly. I moved on, and he moved on, to home school. A year later I got my first job at McDonalds, then to find out he works there too. Everything came back, all the feelings I had for him, and I can't stand seeing him every day and holding this in. I can't turn off how I feel... I know there is something there for us, but how can I tell him after all this time? I don't want to scare him away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): i would say that if he broke up with u, then let him come back now...let him start now...u shouldnt be goin first....
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): Many people say that you should never go back to an ex, afetr all, you broke up for a reason- you weren't meant to be. However, it's not always the case for everyone. Especially with people so young, sometimes all it takes is some time apart, for you both to mature and develop as people and realise what you had together. However, you say went through a 'bad time' with this person. Depending on what these circumstances were, you should be able to weigh up whether it would be worth going back there. You need to realise that it is perfectly normal to be having these feelings for your ex, you shared intimate moments it's hard to ever completely erase these from your memory. If you are serious about giving it another go, make sure he's not involved with anyone else first and then just play it cool, talk to him about everyday stuff and you'll soon see if that spark is still there. Then just take it from there, ask him if he wants to go bowling/to the cinema (or whatever your interests are) to 'catch up with what each other has been up to). Then just take it from there...Good Luck!
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reader, strawberries  +, writes (15 August 2007):
I don't think he'd be as shocked as you think to find out you still have feeling for him, and unless you talk to him about it you'll never no if there is something there for you.
What is your relationship like at the moment? Friends, close friends or more distant. I would suggest bringing up your old relationship as a way to get into his current feelings. Especially good would be asking him if he remembers a particular good point in the relationship.
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