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writes:I wrote on here a few months ago about my boyfriend and I who split up, and he was still telling me he loved me but not acting like it. Well its now been 8 months and the situation carried on. He was telling me he was in love with me and wanted to get back together. I then found out he'd been sleeping with 4 other girls as well as me. And now he has a new girlfriend. He tells her he loves her, and calls her baby, and takes her to the places he used to take me. I mean, if it didnt hurt so so much, it would be laughable. He nows says he stopped loving me some time ago. After saying for 2 years that I was the best thing in his life and he would never stop loving me. I cry all the time, not eating properly, not sleeping properly, im going crazy and I dont know what to do. Just the thought of them kills me inside but I cant stop thinking about it. Im making myself ill. He was the only person I could ever talk to about my feelings, but now he is the one thats hurt me more than anything before. I dont know what to do. I dont want to live like this anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2012): i know how you feel, it happened to me before with my ex then a week later he was saying he does love me and wants me back i was like hell no! no guy will treat me like that, not saying it didnt hurt me, i couldnt eat, sleep, i kept checking his facebook, i quit uni because he was there but believe me over time it does get betterthe only thing now is time, you dont believe it now but as the months go on it gets easier, you get used to being without that person, i think that is the most difficult aspect, getting used to that person being there and how they make you feel and then all if a sudden its gonei know people say go find someone new but your not at that stage yet but you will be once youve accepted the relationship is over and when you get used to him not being there
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (19 August 2012):
 Umm find a new man I think believe a fellow gentleman did this to me it lasted briefly I had no proof, really didnt give a hoot. Because I'm close to him and he likes me, but the passionate lovemaking was ok. We are still cool.He is a woman lover and women love him.No hard feelings. After the white lies cleared up, he is still a good friend
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2012): forget about him. guys like to play with girls emotions. it's like they get off on it or something. you'll find your mr right soon enough if dont turn away every good guy around.
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