A
female
age
51-59,
*den1
writes:Hi I have recently split from my bf he relocated to sheffield we always chatted on the pc b4 the split since moving he has come online and has chosen not to im me .The other night i sent him an im he never replied and logged off i had also sent e-mails which i had no reply to either.After taking some advice from someone here on this site i sent a general e-mail not relating to us . I was gob smacked to receive a reply!! Im just wondering what my next move should be ?? I did say in the e-mail id come to the conclusion he didnt want contact me and that it was a shame as we got on so well .What do you suggest caused his change of heart ?? any advice wud be greatly appreciated. Reply to this Question
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male
reader, pursuit of happiness +, writes (23 August 2008):
He is dating someone else, but cares about you enough that he wants to remain friends, but does not want to lead you on. Let him have a quiet period for a few months 3-12, with only brief contact. In that time he will either realize how special you are and initiate contact again in an attempt to get you back or he will initiate contact to try and rekindle a platonic friendship.
Either way, you should date other people in the meantime, you can't lose.
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