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My daughter insists that I go to psychologist. But should I? I've lost all enthusiasm about making new friends

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Question - (4 January 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2015)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am in my early 40s and I have to admit that I am losing my enthusiasm toward people more and more. I don't hate anyone , it's just I have no interested making new friends or holding conversations.

No enthusiasm, no interest, just blank.,

I don't know if it's a sign of depression or just age side effects, but the I noticed it about myself about a year ago, and my daughter told me the same thing that she noticed my attitude change about the same time.

It doesn't make me sad, it's just that I am not having this much fun anymore in presence of others.

I have my old friends who i like very much and care about, but I can't see them very often anymore like before.

For instance, I have 5 different group of friends who don't really know each other. I see each of them not more than 5-6 times a year, which makes it every 2 months if so. Even that is a lot for me. But to see

them even less than that means loosing touch completely.

.,I was just wondering anyone goes through the same stage?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2015):

I am early forties as well and im quite similar to you, and yes I have few friends. I know alot of people to say hello to but thats as far as it goes. I only really have one friend who I regularly text but maybe only see every couple of months to actually chat face to face. I dont think its depression with me, I just think its the way I like to be as I am like the other poster and I to like my own space, peace and quiet. Dont worry there is nothing wrong with you at all. Not unless your feeling depressed anyway.

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