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writes: Please help me, I am in agony!I have very strong feeligns for a co-worker of mine, and I can't figure out what to do about it.People always tease us and say we have "chemistry", and he just laughs and blushes. Someone even accused him of having something "going on" with me, and he just laughed and said nothing. Then someone let it out that I have feelings for him, and the next day, he asked me to "hang out" (don't know if it was a date or not), and then it just never happened, he said he couldn't get the day off.He buys me drinks occasionally, and I always notice him looking me up and down, but this has been going on for a year or so, and nothing has ever happened. I don't want to make him uncomfortable becasuse we work together, but these mixed signals are driving me crazy!God bless anyone with advice,Thanks!
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reader, HappyTimeHarry +, writes (25 July 2005):
Even though my parents got married as co-workers, it's not always a good idea, especially if you're afraid of discomfort. If you wanna go for it, then you need a new approach cuz this subtle watching isn't giving you anything. You could try to go through the work grapevine and find out if he said anything about you, but that could backfire real easy. Or get some alone time with him when you're brave and ask DIRECTLY where you stand. The time for glances, flirting, and sparring with words has gone on long enough. God bless.
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