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writes:Well it was almost a month since my boyfriend stopped talking to me. We didn't get in a fight or anything; we was supposed to go out and we was talking as normal and we didnt follow up to our plans because something happened with his car. So the next day he said we would go out and I called him he didn't return my call and and called off and on for a week and I still didn't hear from him and didn't know what happened. My friend saw him a day after I first called and said he looked sad but he never called me back so I didn't call him again. Now its has been a few weeks and still don't know what happened. Reply to this Question
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reader, akimduong +, writes (10 September 2010):
 I understand what you're going through. This is actually happening to me right now. This guy I met months ago, he asked me out 3 weeks ago. At first, he texted me morning and night. All that sweet stuff. But after his birthday we got into an argument, cuz he didn't spend his birthday with me. he went to LA with his friends. Maybe he didn't want me to come because we only know each other for 3 months then. But after that he said sorry, and still tell me sweet stuff AT THE SAME TIME, he say he's tired and busy. Haven't seen him for 2 weeks since. I havent text him for 3 days, just to see if he text me. BUT HE DIDNT =[
This is heartbreaking because I really like this guy. But reading other ppls answers got me thinking, I can find a better guy who treats me better. But at the same time, it is so hard to forget him. What should I do? Text him?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 February 2009):
What a fruit cake!
File a missing persons report and when the police go knocking on his door to check if he's ok and hasn't got temporary amnesia / been kidnapped by terrorists, then he might be adult enough to pick up the phone.
If he is just that stupid and immature then he has done you a favour as he obviously had some kind of HUGE social hang up / mental condition and you are better off without him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Kitty Thunder +, writes (21 February 2009):
 That happened to me a little over a year ago. It was senior prom night, and at the prom he advertised me as his girlfriend and even kissed me in front of all his buddies during a slow dance. When he took me home he promised to call me the next day. So the next day I waited... and the next week I waited... and he just disappeared, into neverland or something. I bumped into him later and he was like "'Sup? How have you been?"
I feel your pain. I think it's more common than women think. To this day I don't know why his memory seemed to be wiped clean, but it seems that when a guy doesn't want to face a girl with the fact that he is leaving her, for whatever reason it is, he will just leave silently. Out of pure cowardice. This is probably the most confusing kind of breakup there is, but believe me, it happens. Alot.
You deserve better than that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): I know your pain, my boyfriend did the same thing to me over 4 months ago and I never heard another word from him. Obviously these men wanted out of the relationship and were too cowardly to break up. It's a really despicable thing to do to someone, much more hurtful than being told the truth. When you're sad over it, just keep in mind that your boyfriend is a selfish man, a coward who was so afraid to confront you that he took the easy way out instead of being considerate of your feelings. I loved mine to death, but even if he crawled back to me begging for forgiveness I wouldn't take him back. I deserve someone better and so do you.
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