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writes: I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and he has a child that is almost three with another woman. She is still "in love" with him and has already told me that she believes they are destined to be together. In august he went to court for child support which is in another town. Because he had to be there so early he went the night before and stayed at a friends house ( so he said). He called me from his friends house to let me know he made it. He was supposed to return the next day in the evening. He didn't show up because supposedly he was too tired to drive and pulled over on the side of the road. He got home at about 8 the next morning. Later she told me that he spent the night at her house both nights. Should I believe her knowing that she would intentionally try to ruin our relationship???? We plan on getting married soon but I can't if I know he has cheated on me. Please advise.
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reader, Toria +, writes (19 October 2006):
 Well she could be telling the truth as to rub it in that he was at hers or doing it to cause problems, how did she know he was gone for the two days and not just the one he was mean't to be gone for? you say he stopped side of the road and slept but how would she know he didn't make it home that night?
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (19 October 2006):
 First of all, Why are you talking to her??? THEY have a child together and you know the situation. Secondly, you should tell him what she said. He will more than likely deny it whether its true or not but you don't need to talk to her AT ALL!!! She is the ex and she will stop at nothing to get him back if she feels they are destined. I wouldn't trust her but you need to express your feelings to him so you can get some kind of closure.
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