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writes:hi, my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year and we have a good relationship going on, but when we first met he told me he was going to turn 17, thirteen days after i turned 15 well i kept thinking he was 16 once we started going out, then on the month of our birthday he told me he was actually the same age as me... oky so i got really angree because he lied to me and i seemd thirteen days older then him, but i got over it then! than two days ago he told me he was aktually 17! i tought about this i was shocked but i think he is aktually saying the truth.but im not sure if my boyfriend is being quite honest with me, i asked him why did he lie to me in the first place and he told me it was because he was just playing around when he told me his fake age and he just kept going along with this joke, but he didnt want to keep lyeing so he told me the truth now. i really dont know if i should be mad at him or not. i need help!!!! advise please!?!?!?! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontanx for the advice guys! well i saw his report card before and it sayd he was a sophmore. he's just ayear ahead of me so i guess he really is seventeen [two years older then me]
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): Yeah I agree with Tisha you should've asked his grade or something.
I think you should be a little mad but it isn't one of the worst things he could've done. Hes just lying which affects trust which affects the relationship. Its a chain reaction. He was being an idiot saying he is playing around with you.
If he keeps messing you around whats the point?! Whats this going to reflect on with more serious matters? What about if he cheats on you?! Will he start saying "Yeah well, no but yeah,"
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Just sort him out. You shouldn't be lie "OH MY GOD I CAN'T BELIEVE IT!" just a more firm "C'mon be mature, just tell me I'm fed up with this, I want to know,"
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 July 2008):
 What grade will he be in next year?
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