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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend sent me a message on facebook on Tuesday, saying he wanted to meet me on Wednesday. He didn't send me a message on Wednesday though saying what time he wanted to meet e.t.c, so we didn't meet. So i sent him a message asking if we could meet yesterday. And yesterday, he sent me a message saying he was going to his friend's house ( as it was his friend's birthday ) , in the afternoon, and that he would be home that night. I went round to his house last night, but he wasn't in. I was really upset. He sent me a message today saying that he didn't get home until the early hours of the morning and he wants to see me today. I'm going to meet him, but i'm really angry that he didn't stick to his word on Wednesday and yesterday. I think he was stupid for saying he would be at home last night when he didn't know for sure if he would be, and he should have said he would see me today instead when he wrote to me yesterday. Should i tell him that he should stick to his word and send me a message and meet me when he says he will?. I can understand that he probably got carried away having a good time at his friend's house yesterday, since it was his friend's birthday, but i think it was inconsiderate that he either didn't tell his friend that he had said he would see me that night, or that he didn't tell me to meet him today instead. And also, i don't see why i couldn't have gone to his friend's house with him.Most of the time, he is reliable with sending messages and meeting me when he says he will, but he has done this a few times now.I know that no one is perfect, but i always send messages when i say i will, and if i cant emet for some reason, i tell people that i can't and why. We have been together for nearly three months.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2012): Hun, this isn't a relationship, more like you are his convenient booty call. It's obvious you are not a priority to him and he has little respect for you. Time to move on and not be a doormat.
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