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writes:hi, my boyfirend is almost 17 and im 15. we've been together for almost 2 years now and have always moved slowly on the whole sexual front. We still havent had sex but we do pretty much everything else. But latley we have been getting on perfectly fine in everyay life but he is never in the mood anymore. We even put a side a night where we can be alone for a romantic evening and he juat said he can't help it if he's not in the mood. Is he bored of me? i don't know what to do to get him in the mood. It's been almost a month sinse we have done anything like that. It's really getting to me. any advise? tips? thanks xx
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reader, unbound88  +, writes (4 March 2008):
 I don't agree with the statement about always being available every time he calls. Men love to chase and there is nothing more attractive to them instinctually than an unavailable woman! This has happened to me time and again and it WORKS! DO NOT be available every time he asks you out, don't always return his texts and don't always answer his calls. This will make him wonder what you are up to and make him desire you MORE! It might even help your relationship get better and him start paying more attention and appreciating you more! Try it! It works! Also, hun, I would not worry too much about sex at your age. You have your whole life ahead of you for that. Take your time and don't rush and it will be more meaningful when it DOES happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008): Well, if you and him have not experienced more than 3 relationships, then u two are a little young to be thinking of lifetime long term commitment. I knw i hate it when people think i was to young when i was ur age. truth is, when people are in a relationship for a long time,they either become comfortable with each other or there fire/spark begins to die. Woman want relationships that are ever lasting love, with a guy to tend to needs and be a close friend. It just doesnt happen as much. If your relationship is comfortable and you two are together all the time, he will think of u as a best friend that he likes alot and can have some benefits..(This is different than a friend with benefits). A reason why being a girl, you must find things to do with some girl friends and not be so close. But anytime he calls or wants to hang out do it. very rarely deny..this should get him to want u more. and sometimes awake that dying flame. If he really has not interest he is showing that ur relationship is failing and its life n there is nothing that can be done. Being that he is 17, he will be heading to college soon while u are still going to be in high school. He will want to experience other relationships..but u got to let life take thing where they, go no matter how bad they hurt...
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