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*mandaOBD
writes: My boyfriend is getting seriously abused by his parents, physically and mentally. He's even been beaten up while we were talk on the phone, and has even called off dates after literally being in no condition to do anything but rest. I want to call someone and put an end to it, but he swears he's able to take care of himself and has made me sit down and promise not to tell anyone. I'm afraid for him, but he doesn't want to get his parents in trouble, or cause trouble for the rest of the family(since if his parents were found out, his siblings would be removed from their custody, and he doesn't want to have to deal with such).Should I try and help out, or just sit back and do nothing? Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (27 December 2006):
 If this is something you believe to be happening then I suggest you talk to an adult you trust about it and accept their guidance. Chances are you will lose your BF 'cos he will find out. But tehn which is worse him being beaten to a pulp or having a clear conscience.
Please confide in somebody. Do not carry this burden alone.
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reader, dorfmeistersfan +, writes (27 December 2006):
 Wow, I am sorry to hear about your experience.
However, just be there for him. He seriously needs your help. I think his situation will get better with age. Just make sure he doesn't react and hurt his parents out of the sake or rage and impulsiveness. They will stop this very soon with an advancement in his maturity or age.
Good luck to you and especially, him.
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reader, cutiepie +, writes (27 December 2006):
I think its your duty to try and help but I don't think anyone on this site would be able to give an answer to something this serious, I think your best bet is to contact childline on 0800 11 11 or at www.childline.org.uk their helpline is free to call and can be called via mobile, they have qualified staff who will listen to you and should be able to give you an idea of the best thing for your situation
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