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writes:My boyfriend is so strange guy, I cant understand him , I don’t know what is he really want , we have been together for 8 months and it was so great relationship between us , I used to love my love for him , being with him was the first priority more than any thing else , but now I feel my love for him is not like before , he leaded me for that , once I moved to live with him I found him a strange person , I don’t really understand what is going on in his mind , I wish to read his mind , some days I find him so nice ,so caring , but other days , I see him evil , monster ,ignorant and arrogant I feel scare to go into him , to talk with him , recently I found uses some gay websites for dating , I asked him immediately why do you use them , he said , just its normal accounts I don’t use them but I like to log in sometimes , I said ok , fine but I don’t use any thing 2 times I caught him checking my mobile! I don’t know why? Last week he asked me not to sleep with him in the same room because I move a lot in the bed and i snore, I didn’t argue, and I accepted even it was hard for me On the other hand some times he is so nice, but not like before , one time I told him u were so nice in the first , he said it was honey moon ! it hasn’t to be for one month we can make it for ever , cant we ? Even the sex , I feel it is just sex with out emotions And of course fewer I need him like before , what shall I do ? I am very confused, I don’t know even if he still love me or is he looking for new one Please help me Ahhhh Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009): we have almost the same relationship. It was so bad for me but i started talking to him seriuosly and afterwards broke up with him that day. I cant help it but to do that because i Believe taht it will go there sooner... It would be more hurtong if he will be the one to break the relationship..hehehehe....go! break that damn relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): I think you need to have a serious talk with him, and tell him how you feel. Explain that you need him to show more love to you, and ask him if he still wants to be with you. I know you have tried to talk to him before, but it sounds like you just accept his answers, even though you don't really believe him. If he gives you an answer that doesn't make any sense, try not to end the conversation by saying "oh, okay...". Question him. Tell him you want a straight answer from him.
I know it would be nice to read his mind! But unfortunately, you can't do that, nobody can. So the only real way you have a chance of getting the answers you seek is to ask him.
Good luck, I'll be thinking about you. x
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