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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok me and my bf have been going out for the last 2 months and i have found out he has split personalitys and one side is my bf and the other is another girls bf a long with girls online bf i don't know what to do i am in pain knowing when he is with another girl talking to another girl but he does not remember me like his mind goes blank and lives another life i don't know what to do any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn +, writes (24 December 2007):
 I think he is playing you. What is his history like. MPD (Multiple personality disorder) is developed by major severe mental trauma. As an example. I personally have not met an MPD patient, but a psychiatrist I'm acquainted with had a patient with this disorder. This is an example of trauma that is the element behind it. This lady he had as a patient was locked in her basement for days at a time as a child. The guardians (i wouldn't call them parents) had chains hanging from the ceiling, and would chain her upside down for hours for talking back. Many times she was placed in a potato sack and tossed down the stairs and kept in there. She was forced to go to the bathroom on herself, and still had a nervous tic with fear of rats, because they would come out and nibble on her when she was locked down there. This was a very sad story.
Now MPD is a condition, simply explained, where the pain gets so bad the brain literally ditches one personality and jumps into another one.
I think he is pulling your leg. This is a unique way of getting permission to have more than one girlfriend at the same time.
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