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writes:my boyfriend asked me to go to his convocation but then later changed his mind. i had no idea why then we had a talk and we ended up decide that i should go to share the moment with him. i realised that his ex gf is going to be there and it'd put him in a difficult position so i finally told him i'm not going and he rejoiced over it. he left his mobile and i just got to know that he's still constantly in contact with his ex gf. and worse, in a msg, his ex gf said she doesn't want me to go to the convocation. AND HE said he didn't want me to go either but I INSISTED to go.i feel terrible now. i feel that he's such a loser. i know i should be understanding but it's a graduation convocation! everyone important will be there. not trying to be immature but i feel so angry about it now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): first of all, if he doesnt want to flaunt you around then there is something wrong. from what you have told me you need to end whatever is going on and leave it where it stands. graduation, weither or not that girl is there, is something special. now if he's happy that you arent there than thats a bad sign. thats all i can really tell you.
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reader, Redstars14  +, writes (6 August 2010):
He does not deserve you! You should end it with him... sounds so blunt and harsh but it's true. He lied about what you wanted and said, he invited you and not the other way round and he knows it but he lied to his ex. He obviously cares about what she thinks, he also might want her back. So even if nothing happens you should dump him because you obviously don't mean enough to him. He probably still has feelings for his ex and it's better to dump him before he can cheat on you or dump you and break your heart. So do what's best for you and move on from him he's not worth your time and he doesn't apprieciate you enough.
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reader, DazedConfused +, writes (6 August 2010):
DUMP HIM!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): Honestly if he doesnt want you to go then it must be for a reason. He wants to be alone with his ex gf. if he really loved you or cared about you then you wouldnt care who was going be there and would want you to share that moment with him. He obviously wants his ex gf still.And you shouldnt be understanding i mean he doent want you to go because his ex gf doesnt want you to go? thats a red flag. and he even said it himself that he didnt want you to go but that you INSISTED. sorry for being so upfront with you but theres something fishy going on there and its up to you if your going to stand for it..good luck and best wishes..hopefully everything works out..
p.s. my bf had an even going on and his ex was going to be there too..he asked me to go and he insisted that i did because he had nothing to hide and wanted me to be there in his special moment. he introduced me to his ex as his gf and showed his love for me and that showed me he had no feeling for her what so ever..hopefully this helps..
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