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My boyfriend and I have struggled to be together for over a year, now he tells me he doesn't want commitment, what's going on?

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Question - (10 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2007)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

me and my boyfriend have struggled to be together for years in the past year in a half we finally got what i thought we both wanted. Now he all of a sudden in one day dont want a committment but he still got his clothes at my house what is going on?

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A female reader, baby blue fairy United Kingdom +, writes (11 February 2007):

well this iz tricky but i think hes telling you something hes decided its no longer what he wants you should talk to him he may be scared of commitment? there could be lots of possible answers but you need to ask him sit down and explain how you feel and how worried you are about your realtionship and you do like him maybe hes just insecure so make sure you state clearly where you both stand,he has to go round to collect his things best of luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007):

Maybe he doesn't want to commit himself to just one person for all his life. The thought of marriage and kids probably scares him off. By the looks of things you look like you want commitment whereas he doesn't. If you like the sound of getting married and having children it doesn't look like he's the man for you. You have to choose between him or marriage and children.

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