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30-35,
anonymous
writes:please help.! my boyfriend and me are very different.hes so obsessed with going out with this other couple. i dont really wanna hang out with those two. but i'm kinda forced to. i'm the romantic type. he means a lot to me.but hes not. hes more realistic. he love clubbing and partying and i prefer hanging out only wiith close friends and dont like partying excessively.so now he wants to hang out with this couple and we can see our differences. today he metioned that untill now we were one. now we can see the differences. we love each other a lot. but i cant become a party animal for him or hes not gonna become less social for me. what solution should we resort to ...plzzz help. we really want to continue. and we ant to put a stop to our arguments
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 December 2012):
 Well the thing is even though you are both a couple, it is still okay to want different things and to have different opinions on things. This doesn't mean that you should break up or that you shouldn't be together it just means you have to come up with some sort off agreement so that it does not allow you both to argue. You prefer having quiet nights and he likes clubbing. So if he wants to go clubbing then he should go out with his friends while you either have a quiet night in or have a few close friends around. Just because you are a couple doesn't mean that you both need to always hang out together. Spend time separately with friends as well. Time apart in a relationship is good as well.
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