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writes: my boyfreind fingered me a couple nights ago. it felt good but i didnt want to come in front of him so i told him to stop but he didnt. i started crying and ran out. he felt really bad and apologized for doing it. but is that considered some kind of rape b/cuz i told him to stop and he didnt?? i need help its been bugging me for days! Reply to this Question
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 Yeh i agree with Fiona... let's also just hope that this guy is your agemate then we can say that you both acted silly. Try get over it and do not allow that to happen or one day it could be worse when a guy actually will really rape you and cause harm.. Yeh.. why aren't you listening anyway kids of nowadays.... pray you don't fall pray of what some adults have gone through life experiences... if the two of you got caught up by law.... you even won't want to know what the penalties for both o you are. and young girl why do you want boys to take advantage of you at such an early age.. practice being in control.. when you say No it is simply NO. in the unlikely event this happens again.. report it to the rightful authorities.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe did not have sex. and hes 14
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reader, Fiona xxx  +, writes (27 May 2008):
 I agree, you are way below the age of consent, so please be careful.
Nonetheless, you have the right to stay no or stop, if something doesn't feel right, which you did.
You don't mention the age of your bf? So I can assume he is a similar age, possibly from school? In that case, he will be equally confused about things, and just experimenting a little.
Don't rush into anything before you are old enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): This is precisely why people your age should wait until legal age before indulging in sex.
You obviously don't know what you want so don't expect your guy to know either. If you can't handle it - leave it.
Self-experimentation is the way to go until you get a little older. Take care.
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