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writes: Hi i'm new to these sites, i need advice, my mate has met this lad and she's become friends with him, the other week she asked me to come with her to meet him. I met him for the first time and he took a real shine to me, i wasnt so keen cos i thought he was into my mate and didnt want to come between them, he got my mobile number and started txting he seems really nice and we hav alot in common. I asked my mate what she thought of him and she says shes not too keen on him n if he eva asked her out she'd say no. The other day he sent me a text msg sayin he'd been talkin to his mates about me and he really liked me. I told my mate cos i tell her everything and she's gone cold towards me. I dont kno what to do if i carry on texting this lad it mite be something ive been waiting for after all relationships ive been in hav always ended up where i get cheated on or hurt i never have luck with them. But then again i hate the way my friend is being with me she said she wasnt interested in him so why is she being cold and blank towards me, we've neva fallen out and ive known her for 14 years. What should i do?
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reader, let me help! +, writes (26 August 2006):
She could be jealous. This boy said he liked you so why dont you go and bag a date? Meanwhile talk to your friend about this situation. Ask her why she is being so vile. and just tell her you dont want things to go between both of you, she will get the point. xxxx frm paula
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2006): ahhh, talk to your best friend, if shes being cold to you -- she's bound to tell you why after you send her numerous calls and txts. ask her why she's cold to you--she could like the guy (but didn't want to tell anyone) or she could be jealous maybe? either way if you don't talk to her first it'll get worse (before you make a move on that guy). and then if she STILL is cold towards you even after you tried to cooperate, then simply tell her that you've done all you can and she said she dind't like him, so you're going for him. done deal. life tough, babe.
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reader, seenitdoneit +, writes (26 August 2006):
Ask her why she he is being cold with her. If she admits it is because of this guy then decide how much you value your friendship. 14 years is a long time to be friends and is not worth risking over some guy that 'might be the one'. Don't hate your friend for her reaction, we are all guilty of feeling things that are wrong - she probably knows she is wrong to be angry with you, but sometimes feelings take over. True friendship means supporting your friend even when they are behaving badly.
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