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writes: two of my best friends had a baby in september 05. they get on well most of the time, but there are arguments as they are both as stubborn as one another. the recent arguement is whether the father can bring his best mate to the christening. the mother does not like him. i can see both their points of view, but they slag each other off to me, and i'm stuck right in the middle. it's really starting to annoy me and affect my relationship with them both. they both need to grow up and start acting like the mature adults they should be, but instead they have petty arguements which could be sorted out in 5 seconds!
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (5 May 2006):
 This is a really horrible situation to be in and I think you need to talk to both of them, seperately to sort this out. Dont betray any confidences but explain your position, that you are both there friends and although you are there for both of them you cant referee between them.
It does seem to me that it is something that could be sorted out by a little communication between them and maybe you should suggest this to them both when you talk to them, that they are better off talking to each other instead of you. Hope that helps.
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