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41-50,
*heoneandonlybutterfly
writes:O Ok i still have a problem. I had a problem with my brother going out with my best friend and you guys give me great answers but know my best friend does not spend no time with me she always with my brother!! I try to spend time with her i show afford to try to do things with her but it does not work i feel like i am fight for her time and that is mess up.. She always came over my house if she had a man or not and we always spend time with each other i dont know what to do i feel like i lost her!!! help what to do????
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reader, Artistry +, writes (24 July 2008):
 Hi there, A very large part of being a friend, is sharing that friend with others. I am sure you miss her as it appears you were very close, but why not make new friends to fill the void. There are certianly other people around you that you could concentrate on. Perhaps your best friend could become your sister-in-law, that would put her in your family. Would you not like that? Widen your horizon instead of fretting about losing her, if you truly were friends, you won't lose her. She is involved with a man child, women like man children :o), let her enjoy herself. The problem here that I see is not with her, but with your not wanting to reach out to people other than her. Look for new friends, perhaps get a boyfriend of your own, then you will not even be concerned about her as much as you are. Let's make that the goal, not pulling her back to your side instead of your brothers. It will be much more healthy for you as well. Let's find those other friends out there, and be happy with the way things are. Change is good, change is Cgrowth. Make it your goal to try to grow. Take care and let us hear from you, remember new friends broaden your horizons. Be good to yourself.
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