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writes:I'm in love with my bestfriend and he told me he likes me back. But he has a girlfriend whom coincidentally hates me because she knows i like him and she thinks i am a slut :/ One day he told me he loves me then the next day it is like nothing ever happened then he says to me that he had to choose and he ended up choosing her. I don't even know how he feels about me and whether or not he actually meant the things he said to me.So what should i do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 September 2010):
I'm afraid you have to back away and let him be. He made his choice, and he chose her over you. Don't bother with someone who is already taken. Because if there willing to hurt one person, they'll hurt another. You need to be moving on from him, since he's chosen her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2010): Id respect their relationship and stay completely out, just because there are adverse opinions of each other involved and so it could be unhealthy for all of to get mixed up. The man obviously may be confused about his feelings and when this happens, men need some space to figure things out. Im guessing he made his choice cause he felt pressured in some way from the tension caused. Needless to say, this girl calling you a slut, even if you are promiscuous, she needs to keep that to herself and really doesnt do anything but stir up the bee's nest. On your end, saying anything back would be stooping to her level I think. Good luck :)
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