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writes:so me and my gf have been going out for 5-6 months now...i have this best friend of mine and she is really attractive to me...we have been through a lot in the past 5 years...she is in a long distant relationship with her bf for 9-10 months now..she is very tempted to cheat on him...and i am very tempted to cheat with her... she tempts me a lot...she looks great and i use to like her as well...i got very close to kissing her and making out with her but i stopped myself... she doesnt mind it at all because her relationship is pretty bad... i wanted to but its just not me...its totally wrong..but its so tempting...what can i do... i have a very loving gf and i love her as well...but when my best friend is there everyday its hard not to think about it... i do my best to get out of the situations but im scared that one day i might actually just cheat... i need help...
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (27 May 2011):
 Being a teenager, you can almost always be certain that your hormones will get the better of you. Break up with your girlfriend and I suggest you talk to your best friend about breaking up with hers. No use remaining in a relationship you aren't happy in. If you cheat, you become dishonest with everyone. If you love your girlfriend as you claim you do, how would she feel about trusting you if she ever found out, or are you ready to keep it a secret and be just like every other disgusting, disloyal person out there? Be different. No one expects you to avoid being attracted to your best friend, but there are expectations that you would make the right choices in dealing with this so you don't hurt anyone and you don't ruin yourself in the process.
I hope that helps.
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