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anonymous
writes:I don't understand why my b/f and I cannot communicate. He can be so patient and kind when talking to other family members or friends, as they ramble on and on about endless details on things I know he couldn't care less about but the minute I try to share something with him, he gets short and impatient with me. It seems like we can never have a conversation about anything without him being combative. I don't understand why he turns everything into a battle ground, yet he claims to love me and be completely happy with my company. Could've fooled me. Don't know what to do. I've tried different approaches, thinking it's me -- but nothing works. I wonder if other people have this problem. I have no trouble communicating with other people and I've got lots of friends, I just don't know why he treats me so badly. Reply to this Question
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Well if you treat him badly when he expresses his feeling this could be why he does the same to u. On the other hand if u treat his feeling with respect then he should do the same for you if he can't then leave. If a man can't respect your feeling then he has no respect for you. Expressing your feeling is the most vunerable a person can be and when you are the vunerable he is not giving his all it just an early sign of he storms coming ahead.
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