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writes: My boyfriends in the army,he's cheated on me before,but said that his changed now and he wants to get more serious,what should i do?
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (6 October 2006):
 Some people don't realize what they did to make the person cheat in the first place. Sometimes its nothing but most times something is missing in the relationship. You have to search your soul and find out what it is to cause him to cheat and nip that in the bud. Then you have to work on rebuilding the trust. Start off slow and then work your way into it. It will take time but it can be done. If you want to let him go and realize that you just can't handle it then do just that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): Do you want to get more serious with him? After all he did cheat on you before? How do you feel about him? What do you want out of life? There's a lot of answers that you need to ask and get answers to before you decide on anything definite (I think)
Personally I think if they cheat once they will do it again and again... I wouldn't stay with anyone that cheated on me cos I know I can do better than a cheat...
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reader, amerthyst0202  +, writes (6 October 2006):
 They say once a cheat always a cheat but thats not always the case only you can decide if you want to give him another chance then go for it but why did he cheat first time this is what you have to ask youself
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): I've been in same situation. You either choose to let him go that you will find someone you will trust fully or give him the chance to prove himself but knowing that once the trust is gone it will take a long time to regain, if ever. I'm trying again but i'm very cautious and have set some ground rules down. All the best xo
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