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female
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anonymous
writes:I have mixed feelings! Having been out of the dating game for some time I recently met someone online. Although, at first I was honest with him and told him he was "not my type" he persisted in keeping in contact. He grew on me and we have been on a couple of dates. As he lives out of town we have only seen each other twice. He's not someone i would normally date we are quite different from each other. But, there seems to be something there. What, I don't know? Sexual chemistry, infatuation...I can't seem to deal with my mixed feelings for him. One day I like him the next I am indifferent. I feel like I am on a rollercoaster of emotions. Is it because I have been single for so long and am nervous; the long distance; or just scared. I am going to be talking to him this weekend. Should I tell him how I am really feeling?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 To me that sounds like love...and that often happens when you begin to date and give someone a chance who isn't the usual type of person you go for....how exciting, play it cool, but don't put that fire out just yet...seems there is definitely more to be known.
I wouldn't bombard him with your mixed feelings just yet, give yourself a little more time to let things open up and just enjoy what comes without applying to much attention to your doubts, because there is romantic potential!!
I wish I was there with you :-) xxxxx
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