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writes: Dear CupidCan anyone help me ? After a painful and elongated divorce from my ex , i met someone - but too soon ! - she herself had had a painful marital breakup but that was 3 years ago - so she was ready for a relationship and i wasnt. She met someone and they are now living together. However she and i became best mates, we were great together..in fact i can honestly say i have never loved anyone more!Now we are no longer friends. This is because of the threat to her relationship ,her new family (she has 2 kiddies) and the attitude of her partner. I am devastated and v worried that the love/desire i have felt for her over last 2 years will never occur again in my life? im 37... I try and have the attitude that i should be happy for her , that if i truly love her then i should be happy for her whoever she's with? But it's so hard ..any advice??JohhnyK
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reader, sillysally +, writes (22 June 2005):
Don't worry! All is not lost. You are a young 37 years old and probably have another 40 to go. You will find love if you try. Sitting at home worrying about not finding love is time wasted. Go out and try to meet people, post an online personal, join a book club, anything! The best thing you can do is move on instead of wondering about what could have been. You also need to learn to be happy with yourself alone before you can expect to devote yourself to that future special someone.
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