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writes: Hi everyone.... I recently started seeing this girl who I really really like and I met her through one of my best friends as they sometimes work together. However, I found out soon after we started seeing eachother (and we had slept together by now..) that she and my mate had what I can only decribe as a "one-nighter" just before this all started that neither of them told me about. Now when we stated seeing eachother there was nothing going on between these two anymore, but I can tell that it's really awkward between her and all my friends who know the situation in social occasions, and a few have told me they have no respect for her after what she did. I know she's not the type of person to sleep around and she really regrets the whole situation. Normally I would not get involved and break the thing up as I would never want to see a girl get between me and and of my friends, all of whom I love. But I really havn't felt this way about anyone in a long long time and I'm finding it very hard to break things off. This might not seem like the greatest problem in the world, but it's been playing over in my head a while now! So any opinions would be appreciated. Thanks!
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reader, sweetangel23 +, writes (7 May 2006):
give her a chance she messes it up drop her. thats all i can really tell you. everyone deserves a chance to prove themselves. she made a mistake as does everyone dont be too hard on her. it doesnt seem too serious right now but you start noticing signs of her acting interested in your friend again and things seem not right look into it a little deeper. good luck hope this helps a little bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2006): If you know she regrets the situation and isn't the type of person to do that again, then I say sick with her. Talk to her and see how she feels about it. If this is going to turn into something real then you need to make sure you keep things open and honest. Goodluck
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