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writes:It's been 3 months since my break up with my ex. We broke up because we fought so much and argued about every little thing, we went out for three years and when we broke up, we still loved and care for each other. 3 months have passed and all that happened was me regretting having sex with this one girl. I know for a fact that my ex hasn't had any sex with no guy.She called me that she wanted to give us another chance, i rejected it because I though she was playing with my emotions again, so two weeks have passed, so she invited me to a party and from that moment we saw each other old feelings came back. The next day we talked and I had to tell her the truth that I had sex with another girl, she was really hurt and broke down, I apologized and told her I regretted what I did..We talked and we agreed to see each other the next day, so we hung out the whole day and she told she really liked someone else and she's confused because she also likes me, after a while we were alone and we started making out and it leaded to sex. We told each how much we still liked and cared for each other.She's going to see this guy and spend the weekend with him and some friends, I was really hurt when I found out, I think I'm falling in Love with her again and it sucks because she's really confused and I'm worried that they will make out.What do I do, should I give up on her or wait for the weekend? Do I stop her from seeing this guy or just let it go and see what happens? I really need help.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 Your hormones are on a testosterone acid trip man!
Whoaaaa..
I feel for ya. But your all about SEX right now and that's totally normal. However, it can makes you do and think some strange stuff and make you act out in strange behavior.
Jealousy, Rebounds, Begging, Pleading, and even depression.
So before you go all WMD best to find an outlet before hand to tame the beast. Whether it's just your hand or going to the gym. You have to find a release of this energy before you can think straight.
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reader, mrg123  +, writes (14 April 2011):
 Your not in a relationship with her so you have no right to stop her seeing somebody else. Even if you were, it would still be wrong. Given how things are I think she'd be very ill-advised to do anything with this guy because its clear you still have alot to resolve and its more than possible this guy is her rebound crush, a stage you have obviously passed through. She would be drawing him into your mess.What to do? Well, we have already eliminated stopping her going away so in that sense you have to let it go. Does it mean there is nothing to do? Pretty much yes, the only thing you can do is restate your feelings for her, tell her what you have told us and then let what will be, be. Its her choice then and there is nothing more you can do.
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