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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi all,I am in love with a girl who has been going out with another guy for 5 years - since high school. she has told me that she loves me more than her current bf. we hold hands when we go out(almost everyday)and she kisses my hand and all. i have kissed her forehead and cheeks as well. but she says she cant leave the other guy as he is not educated and he needs her help in his life. secondly, she has had sex with him once. all 3 of us are asians and this is a big deal. she says she cant leave because of this as well. but i cant leave her as well. i love her too much and it hurts too much just to know shoe is with the other guy. as i see it, she does not have a future with this guy, as they quarrel and fight almost every time they meet. he has also hit her before. i am so in love with her and it hurts every time she goes out with him. she calls me darling and my love and all that. always holding me when we are together. i want her to realize that that guy is not right for her as he cant live and support her. he cant read and write. what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Alwayswondering  +, writes (3 September 2010):
Hey.
It comes down to who she wants to be with more. If she wants to be with this person more, then she is going to be with this other person. I understand that you love her, but by doing this it is not fair to the other person who loves her. It wouldn't be very great if had a girlfriend, and she was holding hands and kissing another man. That is almost cheating. Some may consider it as cheating. She will have to realize that if she does not want to be treated like this, then she will have to leave him. I wish you luck.
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