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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ive got a problem with a guy im seeing but and i really like him but he doesnt show any interest in me. The second time i slept with him he wanted to do what they do in da end of a porn movie in my mouth so i said hell no next day i called him he started acting up. he told me he's not into relationship with me, told me that he isnt into emotions. ever since he's picking fights when i call him when ever i call him, why is he treating me like shit and i never done anything wrong. he talks about me to his friends and what we do in bed then he has the cheek to give out my number to his friends. i feel so used i why cant see that i want him he hasnt called me for 2months but i foned him 3weeks ago asking why he gave out my number he told me to f-off then hang up on me. he makes me feel so low. he used me for sex i cant get over him now he wid sum1 else whats wrong with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): He is seriously not interested in you and sounds like a real horrible person. Why would you even care about someone who treats you like that.
Delete his number and move on now - why waste your time on a complete idiot
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2010): What's wrong with you?
Maybe nothing's wrong with you. It's normal to feel used and be angry in this situation. It's also normal that you don't want to let go of this guy, because you can't accept that you let yourself be used in such a way. Maybe you think you could make it all right if you get him to stay with you? Probably not.
Try to accept that you've been wrong in your assessment of him, forgive yourself for it and move on. If you still have feelings for him, accept those feelings and think of yourself as a generous person for not being indifferent to the guy. But don't let him degrade you. As long as he just wants you for his porn performance (I'm assuming you're not into that), don't compromise again and give in to him or his friends.
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