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writes:Is there something wrong being deperate for a boyfriend after never having any at all? I don't know even know what it feels like and I really badly want to know, but no guy would own up to liking me because I look like ugly betty, glasses and weight and the whole lot. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (19 December 2008):
 You Have first got to work on your self esteem as long as it is low you will never find anyone .. Stop looking at yourself and saying im ugly you have go to look at yourself and say I am someone and I am Beautiful until you start doing that and think positive about yourself no one else is going to be able to . I use to have such low self esteem and then i did just what i am telling you to do and started taking care of me first lost weight changed my way of dressing and my whole outlook on life and attitude and now I have men always looking at me and guess what I get ask out and have this one man That loves me to bits ...........
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): female uk 30-35 i am not looking for comitment.i,ll like to have lot boyfreinds like a normal girls.but i want lot of boyfreinds.i don,t why i should have only one.i am not looking for mr right i am looking for mr right NOW.i just see why i see out and others don,t
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): I think that part of the problem here, is that you have quite low self esteem because you seem to have a very low opinion of yourself, having admitted that no guy would admit to liking you. Part of the attraction for a man, is that they like a girl who is confident so perhaps your self esteem needs to be boosted. If you deem looking like ugly betty to be a bad thing, then why not somehow improve your appearance, perhaps make more of an effort if you arent already doing so. Looking good, will then boost your confidence which is never bad when going to talk to a guy. I think that you are looking at it in such a hegative way, because maybe you just havent found the guy for you yet. It has been said that the right guy comes along when you least expect it, and HE is out there.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 Of course it's normal to want a relationship, we all want that........despite whether weve had it in the past or not. Its closeness and emotional security i think you probably desire not just a body. Be kinder to yourself and work on your confidence first. Don't change yourself for a man, but if it helps your confidence go for it. get the works!!! youll feel so much better about yourself trust me. When you are confident and positive and feel sexy you will have more men chasing you then you can handle. Start telling yourself that you are pretty, even if you dont believe it at first, say it enough times, develop the i am sexy attitude and soon it will be true.
p.s. ungly betty isnt ugly at all when she gets her hair and make-up and clothes- have you seen her? i saw a pic of her yesterday actually and had to look twice, she looked stunning!
You go get them girl! just not too many,lol
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