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writes:okay well, ever since i have been young i have been a lonely child very few friends, no real roll models in life apart from my dad, but when i was young my parents split up and i was told they grew apart, recently i found out that my father had been cheating on my mum for half months so i found out that the man i looked up to was no roll model, he went on to marry this woman and have a child but she is horrible to me and always comes first with my dad, also my whole life i have had major confidence issues and with todays society looks are everything and i have nothing, i have suffered years of torment and being bullied and i can not even talk to the girl i like, i live with my mother and we are arguing all the time lately and i can not put up with it but i can no live with my dad because of my step mum no matter what i do things just don't go right for me my school work is starting to slip and i have to much on my mind, i just feel like letting go sometimes, i'm not sure if anyone can help i know my so called "friends" can't but if you can help it would be much obliged.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): Well the truth is that there is nothing that can be done about the past, so accept what happened and try to move on and look to the future. If you can take anything from your upbringing, look at the people who hurt you and vow to be nothing like them.You're at an age where you don't have to live at home much longer so when you get the chance move out, maybe to university and then consider whether or not you want to stay in contact with your parents.There are a lot of shallow people out there and believe me school is the worst place for it as you have so little choice in who you mix with. At school I had people who I would hang around with but they weren't really friends, I didn't meet my first true friends until I was 20. Which is why moving out on your own is important - you'll find a whole new range of people to mix with.You might not believe me (I probably wouldn't of if I was your age again) but things will get better but only if you don't give up. Work hard at school to get your grades so you'll be able to get away, meet new people and have fun. Which should bring about new confidence in itself. Don't do what I did and drop out of school which meant I was stuck at home even longer.
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