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confussed jane
writes: me and my fiance is very happy itill i lie to him i cant help it and after i feel bad and he knows i lied. and one day he is going to finish us i i dont want that i love him for than anything he knows that but i cant stop lyin and dont no why someone help please befor it is to late. thank
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (21 August 2006):
 If you find that you are lying to him about anything, chances are this is because you spend a lot of time lying to yourself.
This is a problem which can become out of hand very quickly, the lies start off small, then you lie to cover up previous lies. Eventually, you can get to the stage where you actually believe what you are saying.
Start by being honest with yourself.
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reader, helpful girl +, writes (20 August 2006):
 im gathering you have never had much attention from males before? and that may be the reason why, you lie because your fiancee gives you attention that way. thats the way i use to be. untill i thought sod it my feller accepts me for me or he can forget us its hes choice so i stopped lieing and nearly 14 months later im still with him. do you have any contct with your dad? if so then turn to him for attention the same way your doing now but try being more affectionate like giveing him a hug kiss, as well as your brothers.
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