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writes:I hope someone can offer me some guidance or answers.I've been dating this guy for nearly a year. I love him and to me he's the only person I want to spend my life with. We're stuck in this long distance relationship. Anyhow, last time we met up, we talked about 'us'and I told him to make up his mind about us, does he see a future with me, and where we are headed with this long-distance thing, etc..He told me to give him some time. A month later I asked him to come and visit me. He replied that he was busy with work. I told him that i made a lot of sacrifices for him and if he couldn't sacrifice a weekend for me, than we shouldn't see eachother anymore. He was really pissed off, and told me that he was very keen on me, that he liked me a lot and if i couldn't see that, than maybe we are not meant for eachother. I didn't think he would give us up so easily. Sometimes i think i made a mistake, but deep in my heart i know i did the right thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): You definitely did the right thing. If he cared, he would not give up that easily. I went through something similar and we split up 2 months ago and I couldnt be happier now, as I can now find someone who will love me as much as I love him. I dont have to worry about whether or not he loves me, once you're doing that, its not worth it!
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reader, Summerlovn2004  +, writes (28 May 2009):
 I think you reacted in a reasonable manner. I think it takes a strong relationship to make a long distance one work. If deep down you feel it was right, then it was, but your having second thoughts because you loved him.
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