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Letting go is hard! Help!!!!

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Question - (10 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2008)
A female Singapore age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My ex-boyfrieny broke up with me two and a half years back but I still miss him at times. I still couldn't let go after such a long time. I thought that I saw him twice after that. So many memories poured into my mind. How can I let go of him entirely? I know he has already moved on with his life and I shouldn't think about him anymore, but its tough. Help me please!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008):

It can be tough, but you have to take each day as it comes and make a new start for yourself. Look on each day as a new adverture. Try and do something different once per week. Either try salsa dancing with a friend, or join a night class anything to put something different into your life and make it exciting to get out of bed each day. Ring a friend you havent been in touch with for ages and go out for a drink, cinema or meal with. Do something to stop thinking about him.

take care

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A female reader, xXForgottenTearsXx United States +, writes (10 March 2008):

It's ok to think about him occassionaly. Everyone does this at least once. Try to enjoy the time you have to yourself.

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A female reader, cute angel Australia +, writes (10 March 2008):

cute angel agony aunthey yeah well if ur relationship with ur ex guy lasted for long definitely u would miss him its normal..cuz u were totally attached 2 him..but u should also take it this way that ass broke up with u even though u wantd to have a relationship with him that very thought should be there in your mind n u will hate him for what he did but deep inside u should also be proud of yourself that ur ex bf gace up something that was the best thing ever!!n u would have bben there 4 whenever he wanted..so just think that guy nw must be dating other women n enjoying himself while i rot here thinking abt him althouh he broke up with me..wake up say noways i want to enjoy my life 2 m going to go up there find the right guy n give all the love that i have to him n be happy 4 ever

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