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writes: Okay I've been talking to my ex for the past three weeks now. He's the one who contacted me first. Ever since that day he contacted me we've been talking or texting everyday. Today I woke up and decided to give him a call to say good morning. I think he really liked it, but I always hear that I need to let the guy do all the chase. So was I doing wrong for calling him to say good morning?? Do I let him come to me?? Male advice will be just as helpful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks
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reader, Gthompdb  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 It's good to show a male your a little bit interested, but let him be the one blowing up your phone. Drop small hints that there is a chance between the both of you, but only small hints. Don't hint too much. If he thinks your the least bit interested, then he will more than likely start chasing after you. Play a little hard to get a little bit as well. Most guys get more interested when you play a little hard to get, when they think they have a chance with the girl, but only if they work at it. Hope this helps!
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Does it really matter who is chasing as long as you get caught? Don`t worry about what anyone else thinks besides you and your man. Do whatever you feel comfortable doing.Unless he tells you or hints otherwise call him when ever you want.As long as it`s not a constant bombardment it`s cool.By that I mean like 3 calls in 2 hours,or calls just to say I love you when you know he is doing something.I don`t know about your man but I don`t like calls when I`m sleeping.If you get the feeling your annoying him back off some.But it sounds like you surprised him with your call,it showed him that you care,and he really liked it.Bottom line is just be yourself.Don`t be afraid to take the initiative if thats something you want to do.Treat him like you want to be treated.Do to him what you want him to do to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): (male here, about the same age) Well, I'd appreciate if the girl calls up once in a while. You also need to show him that you love him too, otherwise it would be one sided relation. (my opinion) regards
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