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Ladies... intimate question for you before I lose my cherry

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Question - (25 January 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2007)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone just a quick Q for ladies out there. I'm 21 and still a virgin but see if you've been using a vibrator can this gradually wear away your hymen so that when you have sex it won't hurt? The first few times I used one i had to gradually push it in as I got wetter and now when I use it, it just slides straight in. I'm planning on having sex soon with my boyfriend and I just wanted one less worry off of my mind so that i can just enjoy it and relax.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007):

K..as you probably know the hymen is the layer of tissue inside..It CAN broken by masturbation and even tampons.Some girls bleed when its broken and may be painful..In other cases its the opposite..its not the same for everyone.But to answer your question yes it will break your hymen.. so i would assume that would definatley make your first time alot easier since the vibrator will (pardon my language)loosen you up.Think about when you are using your vibrator..if you can ease it in comfortably then i dont see why it would be different if it was a penis..heres a tip that i think will definatley help things go 'smoother'..lubrication! Hope this helped dont forget about safe sex ;-)

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2007):

cd206 agony auntI have to admit that I never used a vibrator before I lost my virginity but it'd seem to me that preparing yourself down there will make for a less painful first time.

CD

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007):

http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm

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