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anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now (with a break in the middle). At the beginning of our relationship, things were very difficult, and basically he treated me badly and alot of people involved themselves and made things very hard. So we broke up. Which was fine, although we never stopped being in touch, and often slept together aswell. After two months like this, my boyfriend begged me back, and we decided that after the disaster first time, we would make a go of things. And it worked! He couldn't be a better, more caring boyfriend. He treats me just like i'd always wanted him too. Things were perfect. UNTIL....just two weeks ago, i got an email from a girl he dated while we were split, saying he slept with her just recently. !!!!!! It came from nowhere, and he's denying everything.....but i've just lost all the trust i worked so hard to get back...and now i feel we're back on square one. HELP!!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answer. I understand why you would say about my age, but i have been with him a long time. After working hard to build a relationship, i don't want to give up. I do love him very much. I genuinely do. Everything goes fine until othe rpeople get involved!! Why is that?
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reader, yoginipirate  +, writes (10 April 2008):
 If you are as young as you are, why are you wasting any of your precious time on someone who EVER treated you badly. Dump him & move on. Life is short, yours is just beginning, but each day you spend with someone who doesn't deserve you is one that you could have been enjoying with someone who does. Errckkkk. Relationships don't have to be such hard work, especially at your age. Dump him & go have some fun with your girls.
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