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writes: I have been married for 18 years, I'm 47, and my wife is 45. We have 3 kids (16Male), (14Girl), and 11(Male) I am the sole provider for the family. . We have always differed in sexual desire. I seem to have a much stronger sex drive than my wife. This is not to say that we don't have an active sex life. I just seem to put a much higher priority on sexual encounters. I constantly want to have sexual encounters with my wife, but if I don't initiate activity we could go for weeks or longer, but I would like to be with her much more often,even multiple times a day, and wish she'd initiate things. Even though I know this is unrealistic of me I tend to get angry. I guess my question is is there something wrong with me? We've discussed it before, and we never resolve the issue. I love her deeply, and I know I'm being unfare sometimes, but I feel that she doesn't desire me and it makes me feel unloved sometimes, and she doesn't feel that there is anything wrong until I bring it up. I know she loves me as much as I love her but it causes friction sometimes. I would also like to know how often the average couple has sexual encounters not just inter-course, but other types of sexual contact.? Any advice, comments, or insights would be very appreciated.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 You can get your wife and you into sexual counselling. This might help direct both of you onto a more mutual appealing sexual life.
On average married couples have more sex then their single counterparts.
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