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writes: Dear Cupid,I don't know what to do, I think i've fallen for my second cousin. I met him when I was at age 6 or around there, and after that I hadn't seen him untill we were at ages 13 and 14 and we met at the local skating rink wich is where alot of ppl go to hang out and find girlfriends/boyfriends well that's what I did one day and I found my second cousin, but I didn't know he was my cousin untill 2 days after we were dating. and we stopped going out for a while but then when I started hanging out with him after that I could tell there was still an attraction.I don't know what to do, because if I told my parents that I have been somewhat seeing him (we're not actually going out)they'd take him away from me and I wouldn't be able to see him any more. and I don't think I could live with the fact that I couldn't see him or his mother because they have also helped me with problems with my father.please help me on what to do because I don't want to lose the people closest to me, and I especially don't want to lose him... I love him!!
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reader, daughteroflilith +, writes (21 June 2006):
to be honest i don't think that you should worry too much about your parents. if he is your second cousin then i assume that this means he is not a blood re3lative but his aunt or uncle married into your family. I may be wrong but if he isn't blood then don't worry too much. First off you shouldn't take things too seriously from the outset, you are still young, if by the age of sixteen or eighteen you still like each other then your parents will have no say in what you do. in the meantime keep it lighthearted, you don't need to stop seeing him just make sure you still play the field and only have the occasional cheeky snogs. If you do this you will be able to see how you really feel aND YOU WONT HAVE TO TELL YOUR PARENTS ANYTHING UNTIL THE TIME IS RIGHT.
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reader, Qtpie06 +, writes (21 June 2006):
Wow this is a tough one. Well how close cousins are you (how are u related) I would say that you need to talk with him and recognize the consequences that you seeing each other could bring. I don't know if you have been sexual with each other but that could definatly complicate things even more. So if you haven't yet, I don't advise you guys 2 take it to that level. Good luck!
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reader, Qtpie06 +, writes (21 June 2006):
Wow this is a tough one. Well how close cousins are you (how are u related) I would say that you need to talk with him and recognize the consequences that you seeing each other could bring. I don't know if you have been sexual with each other but that could definatly complicate things even more. So if you haven't yet, I don't advise you guys 2 take it to that level. Good luck!
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