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writes:I have been in a sexual relationship with a friend for about a year and a half. About six months into the relationship i fell in love with him. He makes me so happy and i really think that he could be the one for me. How do i tell him this without destroying our friendship?
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reader, WastedLife +, writes (8 May 2008):
Seems I am the only male here so far - I don't agree wit Notinthesane's first statement though. Any woman that would sleep with me has become a deeper friend as well as lover. For me, sex is the greatest gift a woman can give a man, and she is truly and permanently appreciated. I don't sleep with women I don't like, no matter how hot. A true friendship will always survive sex, but may not survive betrayal - sleeping with another guy. Of course, that is true regardless of whether or not sex happened. Beyond that, I agree with both readers that the best time to talk about feelings is during and after sex - after his first orgasm, if any, and during ongoing sex and intimacy(aftplay?). Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 May 2008):
 The point that you are still in a sexual relationship,
means that there is something more than just sex alone .
If it is only sex alone, it will not sustain this relationship this far.
Man give love to get sex.
The best time to tell him is when you just have sex.
After sex , the male brain will be flooded with waves of loves for you.
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reader, notinthesane +, writes (8 May 2008):
 I hate to say this, but if you're sleeping with him, the friendship is already ruined. You don't have a friend, you have a sex buddy. If you think this guy could be the one for you though, what better way to find out than to tell him. You might just find out that he feels the same. If not, you find out that he's not the one and you can move on to really find the one.
good luck
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