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writes:Ive recently come back from Thailand and i have fallen helplessly in love with a man from there. It was ultimate bliss when i was with him and never have i felt so loved, so special, so beautiful, so.... Happy. Ive been back for a month and i have spoken with him everyday. I work for a corpirate company and it almost seems impossible for us to be together. He says he wants to move to Australia with me but i just dont know what to do. Permanent Visas are so pricey and i wont be able to see him untill August. I just dont know if i should forget him and move on or do all that i can to have him with me. HELP !BTW he is originally from Myanmar which makes things a million times harder....
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reader, MamaBear  +, writes (23 March 2011):
Are you certain you didn't have some homesickness or missing familiar things that could have caused you to be so entranced and into such bliss with this guy? You have pointed out some very valid reasons why you two cannot be together. Take your own advice and move on. Chalk it up to a wonderful memory, one which will probably be with you till you leave this world. Enjoy it! There are many young men in the world looking for a good and available young woman to be with. Look around. And, I suggest you not be so wrapped up in your friend from Thailand that you are not open to a new relationship.
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reader, Aunty Honest  +, writes (22 March 2011):
 You sound like you're pretty crazy about each other which is great. So I guess it depends how much you think this could go somewhere, and if you could be happy in Australia. If you think you'd always wonder if you don't go for it, and wouldn't mind living in Australia, I say go for it! Unfortunately there are never any garauntees so you just have to go with your instincts on this one!
Good luck!
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