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I get jealous when my b/f goes out

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Question - (22 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone,

Well lately I've been really irritable (I suffer from depression and anxiety), I've also felt really jealous about my boyfriend, not about other girls but about the fact he goes out with his friends nearly every day, he always frees up two or three days a week to see me and is always texting me to see how I am.

Yet whenever he says he's out somewhere I get this sudden feeling of jealousy, it goes after a bit but I'm sick of it, I don't want to feel this way anymore I don't want it to become a huge problem. We've been together a year and a half and we've been through a lot and always come out stronger.

I think the reason is that I have nothing to do with my day and I don't start work for a while and I just get jealous he gets to go out and I don't. He does invite me round to his friends house atleast once a week as well, so whats my problem? I don't want to feel like this as I do want to stay with him.

He is a lovely boyfriend and I know he cares about me.

I don't ever question him cheating, I just get a bit jealous.

What can I do to get over this?

All my friends are always busy aswell. xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2011):

Hello and I feel exactly the same with my fiance when he goes out. He does about 2-3 track days on his motor bike with his bro in law and I hate it. I'm stuck at home with 2 kids and hes out "playin" so what I do is sit and fester and then I enjoy the peace and quite especially when the kids are in bed.

I get to watch what I want on the telly and eat chocolate without him knickin any!! I do trust my bloke with all my heart after what Ive been throu in the past.

Set a date with your friends if they are all too busy so that they're not busy on this set time then go out and enjoy yourself :o)

Jealousy is evil, dont let it beat you.

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