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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Ok ive dated this guy several times and were dating again but the thing is my mom doesnt want me to date him anymore cause she says that he played around to much. The last time he broke up with me is because his cousin passed away in july and i dont know how to tell my mom im going out with him because im afraid she will get mad at me and tell me to break up with him but i really dont want cause of how much i like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2011): The thing I adore about Moms/Parents. Is that they truly love us and want for our success and happiness. They want to see us treated with love, honour, respect and all the care and support we as people and their children deserve.
Parents have greater insight and perspect than we ever could. So I would say I would trust Moms wisdom.
However, I think telling her, even if she gets mad, is always best. Being honest with our Parents keeps the love and bond at its best.
Just have justifiable reasons ready as to why you like this young man.
I think Mom can and may be fair and she can have her opinion but at the end of the day, you should really love and honour your Mother by believing she loves you and wants you to be happy. She may even just let you learn a hard lesson by having you date the boy. I don't know.
Its about trust. Who is going to be at your side months down the road, years? This boy you like? Or Mom?
Its totally Daughter/Mother time. Get some hot cocoa ready and snuggle on the couch for some one on one talk with Mom.
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