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I've been seeing my daughter's father's boyfriend for awhile now, and my daughter doesn't approve. What should I do?

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Question - (31 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My daughter is 17 years old, her boyfriend is 18 and they have been seeing each other for over a year. I met her boyfriend father 3 months after they met, we went out and one thing lead to another. We tried talking both our children and they forbid that we see one another. We have been seeking around seeing each other for 7 months now and it keeps getting harder for us. He feels this could cause problems with the father/son relationship, and he thinks if we intervene with their relationship his son would not forgive him. Do I walk away from him? I think he is worth waiting for, but if my daughter moves in with her boyfriend our relationship will have to stop on its tracks. What should I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009):

GOsh correction , your title is confusing, what you mean is taht you have been seeing your daughter's boyfriend's father!

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A male reader, 24yeahright New Zealand +, writes (31 January 2009):

What are you crazy? There is absolutely nothing wrong with this. The kids need to get over it and let their parents be happy.

What do you mean the relationship will have to stop if your daughter moves in with her boyfriend? That makes absolutely no sense.

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A male reader, BadLilSaint United States +, writes (31 January 2009):

Gosh that's Extremely awful situation I've pondered what I'd do in that case. I'm sorry to say but i think you should cut the relationship off with your daughter's boyfriend's father they were together first and even if they did break up it'd be extremely painful to see your ex as your sister everyday knowing that you loved them and now you can't

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