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writes: So if you are used to your boyfriend reporting what he eats for lunch, and then one day you are both talking about what you ate, and instead of him saying what he ate, he rolls out a huge long story of how he gave his bank card to someone else to pick up food and repeats the name of the restaurant a couple times and repeats how he owed lunch to the guy and sounds rehearsed and nervous, is it fair to think he took a girl out to lunch? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2009): well, technically, its not really fair to ASSUME anything. Especially something to specific. You have right to question the truth behind the story, if you're going to question him n what really happened, then i wouldn't throw our specifics like that. You may just make him feel cornered as if he is being interrogated. Did you already confront him with your suspicions or did you just let is slide, but think about it all day?
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reader, lucyluck  +, writes (22 April 2009):
i think its being a bit quick to judge that it was a girl. although his behavior was a bit suspicious it could be anything! its most likely he did something that lunch that was embarrasing! On the other hand it might hav been a girl but in a totally different way and he just didnt tell you because he thought you might take it the wrong way, that shows he cares because he doesnt want to upset you. Of course there is the possibility he was telling the truth! the best thing to do is just ask him about it, but not in an ambush, as that will panic him and he will go into auto male freak out mode. just try getting into the conversation delicately.
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